This was one of the hardest books for me to get through. Might as well be honest.
This book is the feminine counterpart to Deida’s book “The Way Of The Superior Man”
“Dear Lover” is an incredible source to explore what the feminine essence most deeply desires and how to truly live into that. It’s written as a series of letters from a man to his lover.
A few key points that I realized in reading this book: my feminine essence is very different than my masculine essence and that it is always a good idea to plug into my femininity, by closing myself off to men in order to prevent pain and suffering I was just causing a different kind of pain and suffering and that I want to be with a man who is willing to take the time to really see me and love me (it’ll take time to break down the barriers I have carefully constructed).
If you are a female I highly recommended the read. If you happen to be a female like me, who resonates a little more with her masculine energy, just be patient while reading “Dear Lover”, take breaks, put the book down for awhile and then pick it up again, I am sure you will get what you need.
To be honest I may need to re-read it…